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calm ritual 20 min +20 XP
Name the sum you may spend on yourself without justifying it. Write it down and see where it came from.
Why this matters
Everyone has a ceiling they will not let themselves cross. Usually nobody ever set it out loud.
What to do
Name the sum you can spend on yourself without reporting to anyone. Do not think long — take the first number that comes. Write it down and look at it: where does it come from, how long since it changed, whose rule is it. Compare it with what you spend calmly on the kids, the house or presents. If the gap is wide, set a new figure for this month and actually spend it.
Afterwards
Who set that figure, and when did I last look at it again?
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